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Alice Warren's avatar

I loved how you phrased this: "Living according to a schedule keeps the necessities of life maintained rather than being overwhelmed by them sweeping up and through" So true. Finding the balance between that truth and the joy of spontaneity is hard!

Bekah Buchterkirchen's avatar

Yes, it totally is! Yet so worthwhile 🤍

Kendra Elliott's avatar

I love love love where this prompt took you! 😍

Bekah Buchterkirchen's avatar

Thank you, Kendra! Me too!! Exhale community does it again 😍

Janelle Kim's avatar

“…noticing in real time how grateful I am to have said yes when saying no felt more natural.” I loved this. I definitely tend toward being a creature of habit. Spontaneity feels more like anxiety most of the time. But if I’m honest, most often I’m glad in the moments I’ve said yes to the offscript adventure. A great encouragement to choose them even more. Also, totally relate with the PNW grey and the “let’s drop everything and get outside… the sun is actually out!” way of life Lol

Bekah Buchterkirchen's avatar

I’m so glad you connected with this! I am right there with you in spontaneity feeling more anxiety-ridden than natural most of the time. I think leaning into moments such as these are so good for us to not take life too seriously. In it with you 🤍 Also, I feel so seen in you understanding this way of life, haha. It’s such a real thing!

Wendy Mengel's avatar

“Following a script comes easier to me than living life off book.” This is definitely how I feel so your essay was so inspiring to me! Love those unscripted moments.

Bekah Buchterkirchen's avatar

I'm so glad I'm not alone in this! Each time a memory like this is built, I try to hold onto it as a reminder to reach for it again when I can tell my heart needs it. Thanks so much for reading 😊

Karen Godard's avatar

I think I will bake some Chocolate Cookies Today, Just Because.... :o)

Bekah Buchterkirchen's avatar

YES! I love this! Bon appetite 😊

Elizabeth Vanderhorst's avatar

Keep reaching for whimsy 😍

Bekah Buchterkirchen's avatar

The greatest gift! Yes, absolutely 🥰

Rebecca Jantzi's avatar

On Wednesday, we took an impromptu visit to the beach (because it was 42 degrees and in New England right now that's balmy). I had other things I should and could do but my toddler loved it and I needed it.

Bekah Buchterkirchen's avatar

I love this so much!! And how fun that it was something both you and your toddler needed. Beach visits in the winter always make for excellent memory making. Thanks for sharing!

Lindsay Fauver's avatar

I resonated so deeply with this: "craving connection through adventure." Beautiful.

Bekah Buchterkirchen's avatar

Thanks, Lindsay! 🤍

David Holden's avatar

“Making space for whimsy in the process.” Brilliant solution that enables JOY in the journey. Some of my favorite memories were attending last minute high school plays or melodramas with you - leading to much joy and laughter.